Sunday, August 06, 2006
hmm... todaes a sunday... i jus booked out todae... going to book in later @ 11pm... kinda sad but well... i guess tts jus my army life... now u know wad i mean when i say my army life is not as relax as others and y i say i dun reallie hav much free time of my own... tts y i cherish my free time... esp those spent at home with my family...
i guess its jus my vocation... but its still my duty to serve... after all singapore is my home and i do love tis tiny red dot no matter how tiny she is... =)
hmm... jus watched the recorded 9 pm show... ai qing ling du? love @ zero degrees... yup... well... i dunno if i liked the ending... both are nice guys suitable for yixin... but guobin is so innocent in the whole anna saga... but weixiang reallie did love her wholeheartly... sooo... haha... i also dunno... if i'm e director i will make a clone of yixin... make two yixins... one for each... =p
hmm... *sighs... i'm so bored now... sitting here infront of my com... my parents are out... my sister is out too to watch a concert at the esplande... jus me here with me, myself and simon... and jia mingz.. lols...
hmm... marry a rich guy... was mentioned in e show... hmm... if i'm a girl i wont do tt... i wont marry for money... if i'm a guy i will not do tt too... er... wait... i'm a guy~!... shucks... wad am i toking abt here... yah... i wont marry for money... money is jus a material... a rich guy may not be the one who loves u wholeheartly... it may be the poor guy whole truely loves u... will u let true love go because of money? my ans is a sure no... i wont... money to me is jus a thing... i dun need to be having all the money in the world... it wont bring me true happiness... i think happiness can be as simple as jus sitting by the beach with the one u like admiring the sunrise... feeling the warmth of the sun rays... jus savouring the moment... =)
my manager once said tt i was those "lang man xing" guy... haha... he says he can tell... haha... maybe he can... maybe i am... maybe i'm not... when i was working at sakae sushi sentosa... i took the sunsets of almost everydae at the same spot... i wanted to make a photo story... showing each dae's sunset uniqueness and beauty... =)
haha... dunno y now i suddenly remembered my "dream" of owning an island... =)
tsk tsk... simple simon... *shakes head... =)
:posted by rippy @ 5:34 PM
My little two cents worth for a sunny sunday like today... =)
lets talk abt:
Intelligent Optimism
In today's context, optimism can seem like an impossible goal or a clich?r for some, even a joke. Every day we are bombarded by news of yet another major accident or natural disaster or virus or bomb attack, years of campaigning and research have not eliminated starvation, and even in developed countries, the rising cost of living is causing many to feel like they're living in a pressure cooker.
Life certainly isn't easy for most of us, and because of this, maintaining an optimistic outlook can be tough as well. You may well look at an optimistic person and think "well, he must be living in a bubble!"
But optimism doesn't have to be a lofty ideal with its head lost in the clouds. It can acknowledge the harshness of the real world while helping you to be joyful in spite of this reality. This is what some people call "intelligent optimism". This is positivity that doesn't simply say "Today will be a perfect day!" but rather "Today will not be perfect but that's ok, I can still make it the best I can!"
Here are the fundamentals when it comes to developing an attitude of intelligent optimism:
First, focus on what you can control. Don't get caught up with things you can't do anything about. For example, you can often change yourself or your habits but you can't force your spouse to fit into your ideal. You can only lead by example.
Next, stop thinking of yourself as the victim. Life may be a play, but it's still too early to proclaim it a tragedy. In fact, changing your perspective will make you realize that life, as with people, cannot be pigeon-holed at all. It's how you look at it and what you do about it. No one's out to "get you". Most people are too busy dealing with their own problems. Your key task is to do what is best for yourself with the resources you have.
Then, focus on and appreciate more deeply what you already have. Think "I have more than enough" instead of "I need more!". Most of us have vast untapped resources within us that we haven't even begun to make use of. You're listening to this now because you do have the time, you do understand what I'm trying to say, and you know you can do better.
And practise a simple habit of giving positive responses. When people ask you how you are, just saying "Good!" will immediately get your spirits up and gear your brain for upcoming achievements and successes.
:posted by rippy @ 3:27 PM
